I was happy to walk into one of my favorite stores to discover that they were having a sale on sale items. Fortune smiled on me as I snagged great finds at great prices. As I came to the register, the clerk said “Just so you know, these items are on final sale.”
“Okay, that’s fine, thanks.” A smooth response on the exterior was accompanied by an inward moment of brief panic, a darting scan through my items, aaaand the moment of decision. (Very important matters here.) I bought them all.
As I have unpacked or worn the items this week, each time I rip off a tag, I am reminded that I don’t need to deliberate; I already made the decision, these are mine, and I might as well wear the heck out of ‘em and enjoy the odd sense of freedom that comes with the ‘final sale’ decision.
The month has been full of good conversations. Recently I spoke with a friend about the impossibility of having a cake and eating it too. Other than the obvious point of the proverb (I must choose one thing or the other), it’s worth noting that by wanting both options but failing to decide, I lose both options. By staying committed to indecision, inner paralysis wins, no choice is exercised, and neither option gets a fair shake.
But, if a choice is made, if one option is pursued, I can learn if it’s right or wrong. I can experience joy and sorrow instead of paralysis. And I can just experience…period. Using what I am given, in the time that I have, keeping goodness and truth in mind, I just need to choose.
“And you have your choices. These are what make man great, his ladder to the stars.”
- Timshel, Mumford & Sons
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back-- Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth that ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.”
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe